My Doctor Once Told Me To Use A Vibe Read More
- July 30th, 2010
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{I had heard about them, but I was more skeptical than anything else. I am talking about vibrators. I know quite a few other girls who have used them and they said I should experience it too, but then… I could never muster the courage.~A lot of my friends spoke to me about them, and even through my excitement about them, I was a bit apprehensive. Many of my friends have used them as well, but I guess I didn’t have the courage to get initiated with them. Yes, I am talking about vibrators here.~My friends had often told me to use vibrators and I was quite aroused by them, but then probably I never had the guts to get myself one. My friends who used them talked so much about them that I wanted to do it, but never got myself to it.}
{Things became a bit difficult when my boyfriend of seven years got a posting in the Middle East. It was a teary goodbye and all but the real pangs started in the nights that followed when I really began to miss him.~The problems began when my live-in was posted away during the war in the Gulf. The adieu went off well, but the turmoil actually began in the following nights when I actually began to see what I had missed. You see I was with him for 7 years, and this was really very difficult for me.~I thought I was good but then something happened. My boyfriend, who had satisfied me almost every night for the last seven years, was called away by his work and had to leave me for a while. We did not separate well–we knew we would miss each other badly–and the problems began to emerge almost as soon as he left.}
{It became worse with each passing day. We were so used to each other that this separation proved to be too much. The depression spilled out on my work life and I was not doing things the way I was expected to do.~As each night approached, my problems only increased. I was so much into him that I wasn’t taking this well at all. I began to feel depressed at work too and could put my heart and soul into it.~With each night, I only became more desperate. It was too much of a good thing that had abruptly stopped and that was taking a heavy toll on my whole life. I was even bad at work because of all this.}
{I was only this close to getting fired from my third job when one of my friends suggested that I should see a doctor about my problem.~They were meaning to fire me, and if they did, it would have been my third job at getting fired. It wasn’t good at all. That was when one of my friends suggested a particular doctor.~It was not surprising that my bosses wanted to let me go–my work was that bad. And that would have been really bad for my record because this would be the third place I would be fired from after my boyfriend left. It was then that my friend told me to see a doc.}
{I was quite apprehensive about a doctor understanding what I was going through but my friend’s insistence paid off and I sought an appointment with the doc. And what the doctor said probably changed my whole life.~I didn’t know how a doctor would rescue me from this problem but I thought I would give it a try. I got an appointment with the doctor and, as I later found out, meeting her really set my life in the right direction.~Frankly speaking, I didn’t see how a doctor could get me out of what I was going through, but still the friend forced me and I got myself an appointment. And that, probably, was one of the best decisions I made in my life.}
{Some people would say it was a very unorthodox prescription, but after listening to everything I had to say, the doctor said that I was only lacking some intimacy in my life. She said I was so used to sex that I was missing it badly. And that’s when she suggested I start using a vibrator.~The doctor prescribed something I never expected she would. She told me I was missing the physical contact of my boyfriend more than anything else. She told me that I had become used to sex and since I was missing it now, it was creating problems in other areas of my life as well. That was when she told me to use a vibrator!~This doctor was a lady doctor and she really understood my problem well. She told me that it was too much sex and it had suddenly stopped and that can create problems. She said that I was in a vulnerable situation and could do something nasty. Eventually, she made a highly unorthodox suggestion–she told me to get myself a vibrator!}
{I was shocked initially, but the doctor explained that vibrators and other adult toys are prescribed by doctors frequently. They keep people off from unhealthy sexual habits and also save them from going through mental turmoil as was happening with me. She even recommended an online store from where I could get the device discreetly.~Naturally, I was aghast when she first said that, but then she explained that vibrators are a very common prescription to people with problems like me. She said how these adult toys keep people away from developing bad sexual habits and how they prevent them from becoming mental wrecks. I was beginning to see reason. She also told me of a particular web store that discreetly shipped such devices.~It was too much for me initially, but then she explained things to me. She said that many doctors tell their patients to use vibrators when they are going through what I was experiencing. She said how it makes these people less vulnerable in causing harm to themselves and how they make them better emotionally. In fact, she also told me of a place from where I could buy a vibrator discreetly.}
{It was a very unconventional thing to do, but now I am really better. I still miss my boyfriend, but things are much better. This device has seen me through several rough times and has actually made my life better… and probably safer dare I say it thank god for sex toys.~I felt I was crazy when I ordered it, but now, a month after using it, I am really good. I love my boyfriend too and can’t wait until he returns, but my nights aren’t that desperate anymore. I am getting through and probably I should say that I am keeping myself safe too, I will always thank my doctor for his sex toys suggestion.~It felt strange at first, but now after 4 weeks of using the vibrator, I actually feel nice. My boyfriend is still very much my first love, but my vibrator has made my lonely nights easier. I am pulling myself through and, as the doctor said, maybe I am keeping myself safer also so why not see your doctor and see what he things of sex toys.}